Sunday, August 22, 2010

RELATIONSHIP: The THEORY




RESPECT


EMOTIONS IN ASCENDING ORDER

---''Your Mood and Quality of Life Depends on HOW MUCH you Care For the Person, Place or Thing that you are Relating to.''

APATHY

 ---Very disinterested in EVERYTHING, including LIFE, itself. A psychological paralysis toward the way that he/she views things. An understanding of his vision needs to be conveyed...and the flaws therein. Don't try to snow him. He needs your honesty.
---If you can't help...BE HONEST! Find someone who can.

GRIEF

 ---The five stages of grief as put forth by Elizabeth Kubler-Ross are 1] Denial 2] Anger 3] Bargaining Phase 4] Despair 5] Acceptance. It is very important to identify the object of your grief. Then identify your relationship with that object and what occurred that has you so bent out of shape. It is a very good opportunity to experience growth...yourself.
---The five stages of grief are identical to the stages that we go through...as we ACCEPT - anything/everything. Very much a part of my life, as I dealt with my missing fingers...and, its ACCEPTANCE. [I grieved for the missing fingers...as it were.]

FORGIVENESS -

FEAR